The Big Two

It is so hard to believe that our little man is already two years old. The past 10 months have been a complete whirlwind with so much changing that it feels like we are just getting over his first birthday and marveling at how fast that first year went… and now it’s been two. I can’t even begin to talk about how much of a joy James has been to us. A definite challenge some days but every night when we sneak up to check on him, we just chuckle and shake our heads – even on the worst of days, it is impossible to be frustrated with him. I know that we let him get away with too much, but I dare anyone to sit with him for an hour and not be completely charmed by him. He has us totally wrapped around his little finger – and he knows it.

The past few weeks John and I have been talking about all the changes that are going to happen in the next few months. On Monday, James is switching daycares (finally!!), in the next few months, we are going to be moving into a new home and a few months after that we will be bringing a baby home. We have tried to talk about all of these changes with James and although he hears us talking, I know he really has no idea what is about to happen. The daycare and new home will take some adjustment but will not be a big deal. However, the new baby will take more than just a few weeks to get used to. I’m so worried that he will feel left out when the baby comes and I know at some point or another there will be jealousy – but no matter how exciting the new addition is, he will always hold this special place in our heats because he was the first. He is special because he made me a Mama and John a Daddy… he made us a family.

We did not do too much for his birthday, just spent some family time together with present and cupcakes - but how much better can that get?